Tuesday, January 15, 2013

Are we in the wrong? (family matter)?

My fiance and I have been officially living together since Febuary 11'
(when he was 17 he officially moved in with me.) He pretty much has lived with me since July 10'

Anyway. He is 18, and we are just getting are life started together We go to comunity college.
We pay rent, we work, we go to school.
We have a baby on the way. We are very excited for.

When he turned 18, we asked her to give him his birth certificate and insurance card, social card. We litterly had to make her give it to him. Because she thought we we're going to runaway and get married? he's 18--- Then the topper, 6 months after he moved out, She was still filing food stamps on him, we had to turn her in for that, because she would never take him off the case, it affected our WIC,(for the baby) i almost didnt get it.

Anyways,We called his mother, and made sure she wasnt going to file income tax on him, because we we're going to let my mom do it, because before we got on our feet she helped and paid for everything, and my mom will help us and give us money 90% of the time when we need it or want it

His mother has spent $26 dollars exactly on him in the past year. We're not asking anything from her, just not to file him on taxes.

When we called her, she said I have to talk to your dad, and she won't give us a straight answer.
we called her a second time, and she knew he had a eye doctors appointment coming up, She had the nerve to say if he was calling about that, she wasnt helping him pay for the contacts or the co payment, and he didnt even ask.
Then he said no, did u talk to dad or whatever, and she said yes and the said don't you think its unfair that you won't let me file taxes? we need that money, ive helped you through everything.
She hasnt at all. All she has done is critizised my mother, and telling my mom about how we made her little boy grow up, and she does everything for him and making snide remarks about our life.

Are we in the wrong telling her not to file taxes on him? he don't live with her, he don't even visit except for an hour or two.every other month, and only once have we ever asked for her help!
because he had a horrible eye infection when his contact had ripped inside and she bought him eye drops and a set of contact lenses for $26 (When he was a minor and still living in there household).

Please help? she makes him feel bad, to the point he don't even want to call her, bc he always gets told how he broke his mamas heart.and his dad yelling in the back ground saying hes a piece of crap.

Are we in the wrong?
>>> Are we in the wrong? (family matter)?