My boyfriend wears the same grey pyjamas all the time, he rarely puts them in the wash. He wears them and takes his contact lenses out and puts on these glasses which make him look really stern, he has thick black hair and thick eyebrows with a very hooked nose and when he wears the glasses he really looks like his 60 year old dad. He does this everyday and because we argue a lot and he makes tactless comments, I associate his wearing those bloody grey pyjamas with those glasses with us arguing. I never say anything rude to him but really feel like telling him to wash his pyjamas or get new ones. The glasses I hate as well. I find him annoying so when he comes up and keeps grabbing me or grabbing my breasts I don't want to do anything with him but there's been loads of times I go along with it. During the day he seems approachable he doesn't have the mean glasses on and he looks like a 30 year old not a 60 year old, he wears clean clothes and if he approaches me then I don't feel annoyed. It's odd but there's something depressive about him in the evenings - same clothes, same attitude, we argue a lot more. When he takes the glasses off I'm relieved. It's weird because in the beginning I didn't mind the glasses or thebpyjamas but since I know he rarely washes them and he wears the same ones every day summer or winter, it annoys me. Am I being unfair?
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